Wednesday, March 10, 2010

"Love, Touch and Inspire others"

My wife called, will you come here and make your darling eat her food? I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter Anupama looked frightened; tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with curd rice. Anu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.
I cleared my throat, and picked up the bowl. 'Anu, darling, why don't you take a few mouthful of this curd rice? Just for Dad's sake, dear.
Anu softened a bit, and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. 'Ok,Dad. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But,you should...' Anu hesitated. 'Dad, if I eat this entire curd rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?' 'Promise'. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinched the deal. Now I became a bit anxious. '
Anu dear, you shouldn't insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items. Dad does not have that kind of money right now. Ok?' 'No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive'. Slowly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child to eat something that she detested.

After the ordeal was through, all our attention was on her. 'Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!' was her demand. 'Atrocious!' shouted my wife. Impossible!' 'Never in our family!' My mother rasped. 'She has been watching too much of television. This is not expected of our culture!' 'Anu darling, why don't you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.'

'Please, Anu, why don't you try to understand our feelings?' I tried to plead with her. 'Dad, was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, and its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?'
On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless
Anu walking towards her classroom. She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, 'Anu, please wait for me!' What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. 'May be, that is the in-stuff', I thought.
'Sir, your daughter
Anu is great indeed!' Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued,' that boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Chandra. He is suffering from leukemia.' She paused to muffle her sobs. Chandra not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. 'Anu visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue.

But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son! Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.'
I stood transfixed and then, I wept. 'My little Angel, you are teaching me how self-less real love is!'

The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love.

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